Another way to show your German guy that you value honesty and directness is to be open about your feelings. But I don’t text him that much since I feel like he is so cold and for my part I felt like I lost all the momentum after what happened. I wanted to talk to him but I think it’s not okay since I really don’t understand what he is really thinking.

He knows you don’t need rescuing and respects you too much to treat you like a princess. That said, chivalry isn’t completely dead in the land of gender equality. He still gets to open the door for you and buy you dinner every once in a while. So, if you are dating a German man, don’t be surprised if he seems a bit cold or distant at first. Just give him some time to warm up to you, and he will surely fall in love with your charming personality.

Of course I will go and help to build the financial but don’t have to tell me straight forward. He criticised my interest, even I tried to make my self look good for him he told me no one want to see it. I even need to tell him please pull the chair for me or door . This is simple thing to do to show how gentleman you are.

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It is at the point where I wonder if he should find someone else whom he better approves of. When I say this, it doesn’t make sense to him. He also had a terrible first marriage with a wife who cheated on him and squandered tens of thousands, and he is very conservative when it comes to saving money. I don’t even question if his loyal to me at all. Text me no matter the time and comes to me every weekend.

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When to kiss, when to have sex, and when to say ‘I love you’. Germans do all of the above when they feel it’s right, and they mean it, at least when they are looking for a serious relationship and not just a fling. Germans are not good at small talk, and when it comes to dating or even worse, flirting, Germans can become awkward quite fast when approached with small talk. Instead, Germans like to get into long detailed conversations. Those are not always the most romantic kind, as it is about getting to know the other person, their thoughts, opinions, and values. Having female friends is an essential part of treating men and women equally.

This article gives some insight and I am looking forward to seeing how things turn out. I think in all honesty, Germans really need to overcome this Holier Than Thou attitude, or MANY MANY German men will die alone. And the German women need to use their voice. They need to be heard and say enough is enough. Granted women don’t want a weak man, but we also don’t want controlling egotistical men either.

I really don’t know how this will go and I’ve decided to just go with the flow. The closest hing he’s come to share any sort of feelings was saying “I really like talking to you”. Anyway I really like him and I’m so glad I took up German for four semesters in Uni. He got a new hotel room with two beds and was hospitable without any flirtatiousness at first. Took me shopping and paid for a welding helmet my son needed for welding school. (Not a cheap item at $200) He asked me to lay with him one night in his bed as we went to sleep arm in arm.

His friend told me he never treated any girls like this. Unfortunelately, he had to leave for Germany 2 weeks later. Normally, he didn’t talk much, but this time he told me about his family in Germany…his parents, his grandparents etc. his future plan and told me about his previous relationships.

Compared to other nations famous for their dating culture, like Italy and France, Germans are far more rational than emotional. That can be exhausting, but also refreshing, depending on what you are used to and what you are looking for. Here arethe 13 most prevailing factors in German dating culture. We’ve had several long conversations via phone and two dates, also spaced far apart. Really enjoyed reading this information on dating a German. So we planned our first meet and exchanged numbers n met and i thought it went well.

I was not ever in a long distance relationship before. I almost give up many times, but when I talk with him, I feel better. I can’t imagine why this guy would bother carrying on an everyday contact relationship with you if he was only playing – unless he has no spine and really needs an ego boost. I recommend you try as soon as possible to holiday with him – somewhere neutral, like Thailand or Mallorca – so that you can re-evaluate where you are at. I personally would prefer not to visit his homeland (as it’s a bit intimidating) yet but that is also an option.

We met up during off day, but I was 20mins late. Didn’t know Germans are very punctual till I read all the comments above. 2 days after, misstravel he texted and shared a couple of pictures. He texts every day, and doesn’t play the same LAME games that American men play.

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